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Being Chosen Still Beats Being Desired Every Single Time
Desire is cheap and loud. Choice is quieter and rarer. I would rather be picked on a dull Wednesday than wanted in a club by someone who will not stay.
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How To Want Sex And Still Want To Be Chosen Properly
Desire is not the opposite of romance. I like adventurous sex and aftercare that includes talking. You can be filthy, earnest, and particular. Being wanted is lovely. Being seen is better.
