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    Cognitive Dissonance at That Traffic Light Freshers Party

    2 May 2026 /

    I wore yellow on purpose, then spent the night talking stats instead of following the colour code. Wanting two things at once is human. Pretending otherwise is the exhausting part.

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    25 August 2024

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    26 July 2026

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    27 November 2024
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    I Clock Attachment Dynamics in Films Without Being Asked

    25 December 2025 /

    Give me a romcom and I will tell you who is avoidant before the meet-cute ends. It is a quirk. It is also how I stay honest about what I will tolerate.

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    My Private List of Nights That Changed Internal Weather

    6 October 2025

    A Maths Brain Can Soften An Anxious Heart, Actually

    30 November 2023

    I Count Tiles When Anxious Then I Name the Pattern

    28 August 2026
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    My Private List of Nights That Changed Internal Weather

    6 October 2025 /

    Not trophies. Weather systems. A two a.m. walk across Wivenhoe Park. A seafront sunrise. I keep them because memory is data too, and some data is allowed to stay beautiful.

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